I know myself. All the shitty bits, the loving parts, the parts that drive me and others crazy – the wholeness of me.
Knowing myself has given me the confidence to stop beating myself up, to walk tall (all 5ft 2 of me), and to leave, block, delete, and archive when something or someone isn’t for me.
But it hasn’t always been this way. I have been divorced, disowned, rejected, unsupported, evicted, threatened, and have suffered from mental imbalance. I have been attacked, homeless, penniless, robbed, scarred, and scared.
As a child, I was scared. The world scared me, speaking up scared me … hearing my own voice terrified me.
Now my voice is my tool and medicine that I use for Self and others.
Over the years, I have worked on my Self and Shadow, really looking, accepting, and working with those parts of me that I deemed unacceptable, unlikeable, unlovable, and unrelatable. Bringing all those pieces of me back home.
Alongside my private work, I serve on the Operations Team at the OneSpirit Foundation, where I focus on building and developing community. In this role, I walk alongside a growing number of interfaith ministers and ordinands as they deepen into their calling and spiritual leadership.
This work reflects my commitment to community-rooted healing, spiritual integrity, and creating spaces where people can return to what is sacred within and around them.
Reverend Healer · Ritualist · Companion in the liminal.
Who Am I & Why I Do What I Do
I am a Reverend Healer, ritualist, and spiritual companion working at the intersection of trance, ancestry, and transformation.
While I have studied many sacred maps and lineages, my ministry is shaped less by doctrine and more by lived reverence, for rhythm, return, and the wisdom that lives in what we cannot always see.
I walk with an awareness that life is cyclical, not linear, that we are always in motion, always returning, and always in relationship with what’s seen and unseen. This shapes how I minister and how I listen.
I walk alongside all people as they/we rethread their relationship to the Sacred, individually and in community, through ceremony, story, and the body.


My Commitment
Devotion: Reverend Healer
I carry many titles, Ordained Interfaith Minister. Reverend. Healer, Intergenerational Healing Practitioner, Transpersonal Hypnotherapist, Psychotherapist.
Each reflects a piece of what I do. But at my core, I’m Lavinia, sometimes LoveInYa, sometimes Honey, with a dash of Billie.
The world often asks us to fit into labelled boxes, I get it, it helps make sense of things.
So, use whatever term speaks most clearly to your heart.
What matters is the relationship we build and the trust we create, the space we carve, the sacred container where healing unfolds.
I walk beside you, sometimes as a Guide, sometimes behind you as a Witness.
But always with reverence. Because this work is sacred.
I am honoured to walk this path with you.
Ashe.
My Medicine
This space is held by me,
Rev. Lavinia, your custodian.
I've been dreaming into the Healing House for over 20 years. A little piece of it has made itself known to me over time, during lessons, modalities, studies, dreams and conversations.
The Healing House isn’t built around me. It’s built for you.
For those doing the quiet, necessary, sacred work of remembering who they are.
My role here is to hold the space.
To offer tools, structure, and support while staying behind the scenes.
I won't have answers.
I’m here to help you find your own.
I bring over 10 years of research and experience into this work, acknowledging and recognising that modern therapy isn't the starting point. As Luisa Teish so beautifully says in her book Jambalaya:
'Our foremothers knew things that modern science is still struggling to explain.
Our ancestors had access to the collective unconscious centuries before Jung’s mother got pregnant.'

This website is just the portal
Everything inside the Healing House, the sessions, the invitations, the dates, the holding, happens quietly, off-platform, and directly through me. The list is managed through my substack, if you’d like to be part of this, share your email (the one you actually check), so I can email you with invitations and you’ll also know where to find me when the call comes.
This is how we do it: grounded, personal, sacred.

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